The family of the late educationist and founder of the
famous Mayflower School, Ikenne, Ogun State, Dr. Tai Solarin, recently
marked the 21st anniversary of his passing on. His only daughter, Corin,
told INNOCENT DURU how the late atheist related with the remaining
members of his family. The late author and social critic, she said, died
a rich man.
It is 21years since your father passed on. How has life been without him?
I have missed my father’s presence for the past 21 years. He can
never be replaced. The best way to honour his memory is to follow the
precepts that he gave ushard work, scrupulous honesty and not relying on
others but rather being very independent.
One would expect either you or your brother to take to his ways, criticising government and wearing his trade mark khaki shirt…
It is more important to follow his ideals than dress like he did. One
does not have to wear khaki before one can criticise the things that
one perceives as wrong. There are many people who speak out about our
society’s wrongs without needing to don khaki. For example, I see a lot
that is wrong with education in Nigeria at present, and I do not
hesitate in making my views known.
Could you tell us some of these things you think are wrong with our educational system?
One of them is that our government does not care about the education
of the populace. This is evident in how much of the GNP is expended on
education. Until our leaders realise that a highly educated and
motivated workforce is the way to national prosperity, we will continue
to subsist in poverty.
You appear to speak more glowingly of your dad than your mum. Why so?
Your questions thus far were about Tai Solarin. But behind every
great man is a great woman. My mother was as well a great woman who
worked side by side with Papa and can be said to have played a large
role in his successes. She was a hard worker and a humble woman, who at
the end of the day was recognised by no less a woman than Queen
Elizabeth of England. She is greatly missed as well.
Your father was on different occasions thrown behind bars for
criticising the government. Which of these occasions got you worried the
most?
I would have to say that it was the last time in life that he was
jailed for his writing. He spent 17 agonising months imprisoned in the
north. He lost close to 20 kilos in weight, and every one of us feared
that in his old age, he would not get out alive.
Was there any time you had to plead with him to soft pedal on his criticism of government? If yes, what was his reaction?
No. It would never have occurred to me to do so. Papa was extremely
determined in his actions and views. He knew full well that his opinions
could cost him his life, and he was courageous enough to face that
eventuality. And Mama always supported him in his decisions, no matter
how painful they were to her.
Did your father die a rich man?
My father was a very rich man. By this I mean he was very well loved,
respected and admired, which are the greatest riches. Did he die with
millions in the bank? No. And I would not prefer him to be in any way
different from that.
I learnt he trained many people in school. How was I learnt he getting the funds to do that?
Tai Solarin had funds to train many people because he was a simple
man who lived without luxury, preferring to use his money to send
hundreds of people through as far as university and medical school. Any
person who finished medical school, he would buy a car for them.
In one of your interviews that I have read, you described him as
‘patron saint of ogogoro sellers.’ Do you think the gesture back then
was helpful, considering the number of people that have died drinking
ogogoro across the country?
Tai Solarin never took a drop of alcohol in his lifetime! The reason
he still became a hero among ogogoro sellers was that he believed that
those who were producing alcohol locally were being penalised for their
product, whereas imported alcohol from the Western world was sold
freely. Experience such as the barring of alcohol, such as the one that
happened in the US in the 1920’s during the period they call
Prohibition, shows that it is virtually impossible to stop an alcoholic
from finding alcohol even if it is banned. Tai Solarin’s only point was
that Nigeria should support its local entrepreneurs.
Could you clear the air on the real reason your late father became an atheist? There are different versions of it out there.
I am not sure what versions you are referring to. Kindly specify.
Some said it was after he failed an examination he had prayed very
well before doing. Others said it was after he lost his sister after
praying rigorously to avert it.
The generally held notion is that in his youth, he had a crisis of
faith when he lost someone that was close to him. In my opinion Tai
Solarin was a much more devout man than many, based on how he lived his
life.
Are you also an atheist?
You called Tai Solarin an atheist, not me. I am a Catholic.
But did he influence you to become one?
To become one what, please?
To become an atheist
Tai Solarin never influenced anybody’s choice of faith. He was a very
tolerant human being. If more people followed his example, we might
have a more tolerant society.
Have you heard anybody saying that he would go to hell because he was
an atheist? Because I read an interview where you dismissed that,
saying you know where he is resting.
It was reported to me by somebody that their pastor said so in their
church. That was where I heard such a report. I can’t even remember the
person that said so.
Most men dread going to the houses of their girlfriends whose fathers
are disciplinarians. Did you experience that as a young lady?
I cannot say that I had suitors while I was living with my parents. I
was one of the youngest in my set. There was nothing like suitors.
It is obvious you love and respect your late father. What attitudes of his did you dislike?
It is difficult to recall anything about the late Tai Solarin that I
disliked. He was fair in his treatment of people. He was generous and
kind hearted.
Most children of famous people are usually regular faces in social circles. Yours does not seem to be so…
I am not in many social circles because I am very often working and do not have the time.
How then do you relax and what are your beauty routines: clothing, making up and so on?
I relax by reading and travelling. With regards to health and beauty, I believe that everything should be done in moderation.
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